“B” is for Bucket List (Singapore)

Chinese Gardens (March 18,2026)

We have five days in Singapore before heading out on our cruise.  We have been here before, when we stopped on our cruise in 2023.  Feeling like we had a pretty immersive overview of the city the last time, we wanted to delve deeper into everything with this trip.

If you have ever traveled with me, you know I am a planner!  With every city or new country, I set a list of intentions.  Some people call them “bucket lists”.  They are really just goals and ambitions, purpose to our days, if you will. Isn’t that what an ABC Adventure is all about?

Singapore was no exception to my preparations.  To turn a bucket list into an ABC list, I simply map out the possibilities. When we set our intentions, I am always thinking about what kinds of foods I want to try, the must see places I want to visit, the kinds of animals we might see, the photos I want to take and the stories which must be told. On the ABC list, you might see a color, or a verb listed, perhaps a journal question…these are reminders of what I want to document.  The ABC list (my bucket list) becomes a huge collection of ways to capture our adventure.  Singapore was a very big part of our ASIA exploration, which I will cover in greater detail at a later point on the blog.  For now, we are following along in real time.  Today, March 18,2026  we landed in Singapore, we are going to get a few hours of rest then begin our exploration.

After much research, we realized we had actually created a pretty comprehensive plan for ourselves in Singapore.  Our first day would focus on gardens.  Our second day was all about exploring modern Singapore.  The third day was going to be filled with culture.  The fourth day we would be visiting the Colonial areas and finally the fifth day was about taking it easy, as we boarded our cruise.  Within each of our days, in Singapore, there were many things we wanted to see.  I wondered if we could complete an entire alphabet adventure while we were here.  The next few days will tell.  So here is what we have planned to see/do or experience, while in Singapore.  Here is our ABC Adventure.

 

 

ABC Singapore

A

Accommodations

Abdul Gaffoor Mosque

Amoy Street

Ann Slang Hill Park

Ann Slang Hill Rd.

Apple Store

Arab Street

Architecture

Art

Art Science Museum

Arthur Bordelo Sculptures

Asian Civilization Museum

 

B

Baba House

Best Memory

Biggest Surprise

Boat Quay

Bonsai Garden

Breakfast

Bruce Lee Tributes

Buddha

Buddha Tooth Relic Museum

Bumboat

 

C

Cavanaugh Bridge

Challenges faced or expected to face

Chinatown

Chinatown Heritage Center

Chinese Garden

City

Civil Defense Heritage Center

Clark Quay

Cloud Forest

Cocktails

Coffee

Colonization

Colorful houses

Costs

Culture

Cultural differences/cultural misunderstandings

Currency

 

D

Distance traveled

Document daily life

Dragons

DREAM sign

 

E

Eat

Elevate the view (Marina Bay Sands/ Skybridge & Supertree Grove Skywalk at Gardens by the Bay/ Singapore Flyer)

 

F

Famous Streets

Favorite anything

Fears you faced and how you overcame them

Flag

Floral Fantasy

Flower Dome

Flowers

Food

Fort Canning Park

Fullerton Hotel

Funniest Moment

 

G

Gardens

Gardens by the Bay

Garden Rhapsody Light and Sound Show

Green spaces

Gelam (a type of eucalyptus tree that grows near Kampong Gelam)

Gopuram (a monumental tower, usually ornate, at the entrance of a Hindu temple, in the South Indian architecture.

Government

 

H

Haji Lane

Hawker Center

Helix Bridge

Henna art

Heritage

Hindu

History

How will this trip differ from previous visits

 

I

Ice Cream

Indian

Indian Heritage Center

 

J

Jewel Change Airport

 

K

Kampong Glam (Kampong means “village”)

Kaya Jam/Toast

Keepsakes from our travels

Koon Seng Roaf

 

L

Lightshows

Lily pond

Little India

Little India Arcade

Local foods you are excited to try and why

Long Bar (Raffles Hotel)

 

M

Majong

Malabar Mosque

March

Marina Bay

Marina Bay Sands Casino and Hotel

Market

Masjid Jamae

Masjid Sultan

Maylay

Maylay Heritage Center

Meadow Garden (See Gardens by the Bay)

Merlion

Mosques

Muffasa Center

Museums

Music

Muslim

Mustafa Center

MRT (Mass Rail Transit) System

Murals

 

N

Nature

Nightlife

Nighttime

 

O

Observation Deck

Old Hill Police Station

Old Parliament House

Orchard Rd.

 

P

Pagoda

Pagoda St.

Palace of the Former Sultan (see also Maylay Heritage Center)

Panadan chiffon cake

Parks

Passport stamp

Peoples Park Complex

People Watch

Perceptions

Picnic

Pineapple Tarts

Planet (Giant Baby Sculpture)

Politics

 

Q

Quays

 

R

Raffles Hotel

Rain Vortex

Recommended sight, event or experience

Red

Religion

Repeat visit

River Cruise

River Quay

Robertson Quay

Rules

 

S

Sage St.

Sakya Muni Buddha Gaya Temple

Sampan boat

Satay by the Bay

Sculptures

Serangoon Road

Shophouses

Shopping

Signs

SINGAPORE

Singapore Flyer

Singapore is Spectra (Light show)

Singapore National Museum

Singapore river

Singapore Sling

Skyway Bridge

Skypark Observation Deck

Skypark Sound & Light Show

Smells

Sounds

Souvenirs

Spectra Light & Water Show

Sri Mariamman ahindo Temple

Sri Srinivasa Perumal Temple

Sri Veeramakaliamman Temple

St. Andrews Cathedral

Street Art

Sultan Mosque

Supertree Grove

Supertree Observatory

 

T

Tai Chi

Tan Teng Niah House

Telok Ayer St

Tekka Centre

Temple of 1000 lights (see also Sakya Muni Buddha Gaya Temple)

Temples

Temple Street

Textures

Train stations

The Promontory

The Skyway

Thian Hock Keng Temple

Thian Hock Keng Mural

Top Moments of this trip

Traditions

Traditional Trades of Little India Mural

Transportation

Travel Companion

 

U

Unexpected (because there is always some of this!)

Unique

Unplanned

 

V

Victoria Water Lily Pond

Visas

Vivid memories

 

W

Walk

Wander

Weather

White Rabbit Candy

 

X

eXcellent view

eXperiences vs. eXpectations

 

Y

Yen

Yin and Yang

Yong Kee Food Supply Mural

You/Yourself

Yummy/Yucky

 

Z

Zen

 

Gardens by the Bay Night Show (March 18,2026)
Marina Bay Sands Casino and Hotel (March 19, 2026)
Little India (March 20,2026)
Clarke Quay (March 21,2026)

 

 

 

“A” is for Asia

After over a year of planning, we are off!  Today we set the course for our next  adventure.  We are embarking on a 25 day cruise, with 10 additional days of land travel.  We will have 5 days in Singapore before the cruise and 5 days after, in Tokyo.  In between we will visit Thailand, Vietnam, China, Taiwan, South Korea,  and Japan.

When Alan retired, we made a commitment to see all 7 of the continents before he turned 70 .  Asia was the fourth continent on our bucket list.   We still have South America and Antarctica to do.  Technically Alan had fulfilled the Asia goal the year before he met me. In 1980, he took a 6 week training course in Japan. I too have fulfilled my Asia continent goal, while traveling on a portion of the World Cruise in 2023.

On that trip we met so many widows who hadn’t made it to their 50th Anniversary, with their spouses.  We also met many people who had become infirmed by illness or injury before they turned 70.  We decided to do our long distance traveling with as much speed as financial resources and health would allow.

Just six weeks ago we returned home from a trip to England.  The known stressors that we would be facing on that journey, had made us move up to business class.  If you know anything about us, it is that we are very frugal.  Business class is not a luxury we have never indulged in, until recently.     As soon as we completed that flight to England, we instantly began to search if we could upgrade for the Asia trip (our longest flight yet).  Alan realized we had some unused mileage points and combined with a good flight sale, it made the tickets attainable. These two bodies are not as young as they once were and this extra space and the ability to lay down  means that we will hopefully arrive to our destination refreshed and ready to start our vacation.

When going on a long cruise, we don’t travel light, we pack for comfort and convenience, which means we likely bring too many things.  On this trip, we have 4 suitcases (2 large and 2 medium) and our carry-ons.  For clothing, I have my list pretty well established and I could probably get by with a single suitcase.  It is the room organization, which takes up so much space in our luggage (as I said, comfort and convenience).  You probably wouldn’t believe me if I told you I am carrying laundry pods, paper plates, snacks and a full service first aid and medical kit, but I am!  I will share more about our packing lists on another post.  Normally we buy these things at our starting port when flying, but they will be a little more difficult to source in Singapore, so we have them in the luggage.

The other benefits to flying business class, are that we are able to take 70lbs per suitcase.  I don’t recommend this, as ultimately it will be us who is lugging the cases around.  For the benefit of others, we still try to stick to the 50 lb rule.   My cases for this trip have all come in around 40-45 pounds and we will be shedding many consumable items as we travel.

We had been so incredibly prepared for this trip.  I began packing about six weeks ago, just after we returned from England. Weeding out the things we didn’t need and adding in a few new things we did, such as a snorkel and mask.  What I hadn’t counted on was a freak snowstorm to disrupt our plans.   When we saw the storm was expected to dump 2-3 feet of snow, Alan changed our flight plan to leave a day early (Sunday).  The airline cancelled those plans on Saturday morning and re-booked us on the original Monday flight from Traverse City to Chicago.  By then it looked like travel would be impossible, the airline just hadn’t realized it yet.  With about 15 minutes notice, Alan decided to hire a rental car in Traverse City and gave me 2 hours to be ready to go.  It was the last car available!  This was Saturday night, just hours before the storm was due to begin but still nearly forty hours before our connecting flight in Chicago.    I’m pleased to say that I had the car loaded in record time!  My organization had really paid off. We closed down the house and set off for our six hour commute to Chicago.

In the interest of time, I will detail our journey to Chicago in a different post but needless to say we made our flight bound for Tokyo, roughly on time (Monday morning).  We were delayed an hour as they de-iced the plane, twice.  It is a 13 hour flight with a 3 hour layover, then we will travel another 7 hours on to Singapore.

We are not getting any younger, so at the last minute, we upgraded to business class, hoping this would help us rest and arrive with a little less jet lag.  We each got about 4 hours of sleep.

The meal on the flight was a choice of Asian or Western cuisine which on All Nippon Air means we still only had a choice of a variety of fish based items.  Knowing how fussy we are for “basic” foods, we had stocked up on Subway Sandwiches!  Our hope was that we could eat these for our dinner.  I think it will be terribly amusing when we pull these out, in Business Class.  It gave my mother a chuckle to hear we have a cooler with us.  This too is part of our cruise supplies.  We love creating impromptu picnics in port (or on a plane).

At 4:30pm local time, we landed at Haneda airport in Tokyo, Japan.  We were now officially in ASIA!

We will have just a two hour layover, since we are a little late.  Once again we will be taking advantage of the International Lounge.  While sitting in the lounge, we spent some time dreaming about the countries we would see on this trip…Singapore, Thailand, Vietnam, China, Taiwan, South Korea and Japan.

   

 

We keep pinching ourselves that we are actually here and beginning this Asia adventure.

By the time we set off for Singapore, our old butts were really beginning to drag.  While only 6:30 pm local time, it was now 4:30 am our time.  We still had a 7 1/2 hour flight to our final destination.  Our only goal on this last leg was to sleep.

We arrived in Singapore at 1am local time.  With the 12 hour time difference we were now pushing our 27 hour window.  With the stress of the additional travel days, we were ready for our hotel.

When we travel, we take each section in bite size chunks.  We still had Customs and Immigration to clear and our past experience with Singapore had not been pleasant, they are notorious for long lines.   Three days before we set off, we were required to complete our visa online. With the significant time change this meant we did it in the hotel before setting off for the flight. The new digital entry has now made the whole process relatively stress free and fast.

After picking up our bags (which thankfully had all made it), we were met by our pre-arranged taxi driver and whisked away to our hotel.  In 20 minutes we were there.  In 45 minutes we were checked into our room and in bed.   The time is now nearing 3 a.m., which was 3 p.m. at home.  We have a full day of adventures planned “today”, so we need to get a few more hours of sleep before we set off.  Goodnight or good morning, depending on where you are in the world!  Welcome to our Asian Adventure!

“X” is for What EXcites You About Your Trip? (Pre-travel planning)

Our trip is drawing very near and we are down to just a few days before we leave.   I am so excited to experience all the new countries and cultures.   I am not sure if I can define what one thing excites me the most.  Each city/country will offer us something unique.  We have planned our activities with a nice mixture of scenery and city tours so I am hoping we will also enjoy a nice pace.

Architecture always excites me and we are about to be bombarded with that.  I am also excited to spend time in Singapore and Tokyo before and after the cruise.  There is a unique distinction about being a tourist verses being a traveler.  The ability to navigate the transportation systems and communicate in a foreign language are protected and predictable when you are on tours.  To be a traveler, one must merge with the society you are visiting.

I am also excited for the learning which will go on, on the cruise.  There is a photographer on board who is teaching classes, using our cell phones instead of a camera.  It seems like a small thing, but this excites me greatly to learn to trust that I don’t need to lug around my heavy SLR camera around.  This is the first trip I am leaving it at home.  There is also a historian on board who is lecturing on each of the countries we are visiting.  We can never have too much knowledge!

Finally, I am excited to be spending so free much time with Alan.  Getting away from the mundane jobs of cooking and cleaning always renews our energy.  As our granddaughter would say…just three more sleeps!  That is unless we manage to move our flight to Chicago forward by a day.  We are currently punting to try to make our challenges as simple as possible.   We are expecting a massive snow storm in our area Sunday into Monday.  Since it will be measured in feet not inches, we are hoping to get out of here before it hits!  If not, this may be the most exciting part of our journey!

“W” is for What’s Worrying You (Pre-travel planning)

On February 28, 2026, an intercepted drone struck the Burj al Arab, causing a minor fire on the outer facade of the building.  The USA was suddenly at war with Iran, which has since quickly escalated to include most of the Middle East becoming involved as either ally or agent.   We worried, should we cancel our trip?

It’s easy to let worries prevent you from traveling.  Like many places we visit, things change after we have been there.  Whether man-made disasters, or caused by nature;  the politics, the safety, the infrastructure and/or the  landscape may alter quickly.

When we saw the images of the Burj al Arab, shaped like a sailboat, we recalled that we had seen the luxury hotel, while driving through the city of Dubai in 2023.   This was just one of the amazing, architecturally interesting structures we would see.  The images instantly took me back to why we were there at all.

We had an opportunity to extend our last cruise by an additional segment, for half the regular cost.  This would allow us to sail through parts of Asia and ultimately end our trip in Dubai.  We decided to jump at the opportunity.  Dubai wasn’t a country which I would likely ever have chosen to explore on our own, yet we did just that as we rented a car and so enjoyed the cultural experiences we encountered.  This is the beauty of travel, it opens your eyes and challenges your stereotypes and personal biases.    I had felt very safe in Dubai, I couldn’t imagine at the time, that the very airport which we had flown out of, would be bombed just a couple of years later. I know I am unlikely to travel through Dubai again in my lifetime, not because I don’t want to (I do) but rather  because it is not near any other place I am likely to be visiting.

As I watch the news, I am worried about the challenges which might be created for us on this trip.  We will be thousands of miles away from the fighting but terrorist attacks are arising daily. Countries are beginning to hoard their oil reserves, including some which we will be visiting.  We may experience fuel shortages which could affect both our air and sea travels.

Stateside our Transportation Security Administration (TSA) is being hampered by a government shut down.  Yesterday over 300 agents quit, since they are working without pay.  As a result, the lines are getting long at the airports.

To top things off, it looks like we may be hit with 2 snow storms, measuring in feet not inches over the next couple of days.   Today is Thursday, we leave Monday.  The first storm arrives tomorrow into Saturday and the more serious one arrives overnight on Sunday.  Our flight departs at 7a.m., hopefully.

In our last few days of preparation for our Asia trip, I do not have a crystal ball to know how this will play out for us.  I accept that I have zero control over any of it.  I have travel insurance to handle any change of plans which may come our way.  The rest of it I must leave to fate.  In the meantime I will try to stay focused on the joy I shared with Alan, as we traveled down a river near old Dubai.  I am excited to make new memories and by this time next week we should be in Singapore!

“V” is for Visas (Pre-trip planning)

On our Asian trip we are traveling to Singapore, Thailand, Vietnam, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korea and Japan.  We received a notice from our cruise line yesterday (less than a week before we set off) that visas were required for our travel.  Thankfully I already knew that.

A travel visa is sometimes required when visiting a foreign country.  This is a document which allows you to legally enter and stay in a country for a specified amount of time.   Rules and length of stay vary by country.    There are many different kinds of visas.

A Transit Visa may be required even if you are just passing through one country to get to another country.  It will not matter if you are arriving by car, boat or plane.  These visas usually only allow from hours to days to make the transit.

Short Stay Visas, Tourist Visas and Travel Visas usually allow you to stay for about 90 days or less. These are common when you will be staying in the country for a period of time.  You may not work in the country you are visiting on most of these types of visas. Visas vary for different nationalities so be sure to check that too, if this is your situation. There are many other kinds of visas but the above two pertain most to travelers so these are the only ones I will mention on this blog.

I used www.ivisa.com to check which of the countries we would need to obtain visas for.  I required 4 but Alan only needs 3.   All will be a form of a transit visas, which can only be obtained a few days before our arrival at each destination.  While on a cruise, the ship often takes care of these,  because not all passengers have access to the internet while en-route so doing the 72 hour thing can be challenging.  A fee is often charged for the service and convenience.  As a result, we are now down to needing to procure just one visa for each of us and that is for Singapore.  We will register 72 hours before our arrival, nearly half of that will be spent just trying to get us there!, Let’s hope there will be no delays…so far we only have to worry about a war which is causing fuel to spike, TSA agents quitting after a government shutdown, which has the effect of long security lines and now a big weather system is due into town the night before we set off!  No worries,  because I can’t control any of this.  I did stock up on snacks today though, just in case we get stranded!

“U” is for Upgrades (Pre-trip planning)

Upgrades are a wonderful thing, they usually mean an opportunity to have a little more comfort.   They come at a cost too but here’s the thing, there are a lot of ways to go about getting an upgrade, which can be quite frugal.   For example, we booked our cruise as a guaranteed cabin.  This is generally a less expensive way of reserving a room but it comes with some restrictions.  It means we don’t get to choose our room location but there is  “guarantee” of a certain level.  I don’t generally like doing this because I am really fussy about where our room is positioned on the ship.  We don’t want to be under pools, fitness areas, smoking lounges, teen centers, laundry room or near elevators.  We want the middle of the ship because it is more stable when we hit rough seas.

The cruise we are about to sail on,  had been nearly sold out when we finally decided to change our plans from a September sailing to a March sailing.  As payment dates neared, I was watching the site like a hawk, knowing passengers often cancel around that time.  We began to notice that actual cabins were becoming available so we began checking regularly, hoping for a room in our desired location.

As soon as a room was available, I was on the phone to our travel agent, who then locked it down for us. There was no additional cost and we now had a specific room.  Sometimes patience is all which is needed.  Now we are in a wonderful location.  It is on the port side of the ship which will allow us to enjoy sunsets and be able to see every port we sail into and all the land masses as we are sailing by.  I couldn’t have picked a better location, even if I had had first choice!

Then came another opportunity.  Last week we were offered to upgrade our perfect room to a mini suite or better.  We momentarily contemplated it knowing the perks which come with it (such as more space and possibly even a private butler) but we know better than to take these offers, because there is no guarantee about where you will be placed on the ship, so while the cabin might be bigger, with many more amenities,  the view, the noise levels etc., might be less than comfortable.  We will be sticking with our current cabin.  As they say in card games, you have to know when to hold em’. so no more upgrades on the cruise side of things!

As I have mentioned before, we are pretty frugal, some would even call us tight.  We spent 30+ years working our butts off to be able to travel like we do now.   The airlines have been slowly changing the seating in planes, a little less cushioning, a little less legroom, a narrower seat.  It has become almost dangerous to fly economy anymore, We began upgrading to Premium Economy, its now what regular seats use to be.  With Alan’s height, this gives him just a little more leg room and has been worth the extra comfort.  Business Class is another level altogether.  This is not normally the way we fly, as we find it very expensive for the return on investment.  We can generally get through about 8 hours before starting to get really uncomfortable and so far, that has been our longest air time in one stretch.

We upgraded to Business Class when we flew back to England recently…there had been a “too good to turn down offer” and we paid the extra money to do it.  Sometimes the deals to Europe aren’t very much extra to upgrade, when a flight is full.  Perhaps it was a mistake, because now we have realized what we have been missing and the  comfort which this class of travel offers. The problem with taking some of these upgrades is that once you experience them, you don’t want to go back.

With the upgrade we could load 70 pounds into our suitcases instead of 50 (which we never recommend because ultimately it is you that has to pull that case).  With the Business Class upgrade we were greeted with champagne and served food on real plates. We could lay flat and turn our seat into a bed.  During our layovers, we also had access to showers and lounges, hot meals, drinks and alcohol all day. We could  use the lounge to charge our phones and enjoy free wi fi.  We could sit in oversized cushy chairs as we waited between flights. The lounges were mostly quiet, so we could rest. We were now officially spoiled.

We began to reconsider our trip to ASIA, which involves 29 continuous hours of travel.  Even Premium Economy was going to be uncomfortable.  We decided to figure out how to make the upgrade to Business Class work for ourselves but we still didn’t want to spend much money.   We are not (yet) masters of using mileage points for upgrades etc., but our particular card lets us purchase tickets with our points, 1 mile= $1.  When we realized that we still had mileage from our last cruise and we had just used the same card to pay for our current cruise, we also realized we could make this work to our advantage.

After our 2023 trip, we had learned to always book a changeable ticket, so when we asked to upgrade, there was no problem.   We had actually booked our Premium Economy seats nearly a year before the trip, but the best international fares generally come out about six weeks before a travel date, so again Alan had been monitoring the fares, always hoping to restructure to save a little more money.  The day after we returned from England, the best fare finally hit.  It was a couple thousand dollars less than just the day before!   The Business Class fare was now within our reach.  This is when we knew to make use of our points.

For just a few hundred dollars more, we are now traveling to Singapore, in style! The bench like seats are about twice as wide as normal Premium Economy seats, they convert to a full lay flat bed so we will be able to sleep on the plane.  The “room” on All Nippon Air (ANA)  allows us to cocoon ourselves completely away from others and is considered one of the most unique features of the airline.

Even as early as today, we are still watching the fares, they have since risen to astonishing rates and have almost doubled from where they were when we booked!   Nothing feels better than feeling like we got a super bargain!  Our best advice is to consider your “why” when deciding if an upgrade is worth it, then make it work for you.    When we arrive at 1am after a 29 hour travel day we hope to be touring just 8 hours later.  With the upgrade, we will arrive refreshed and ready to enjoy our adventure, from the first hour we set foot in Singapore.

Once again we are counting our blessings.  We are humble enough to recognize this is a luxury.  We are wise enough to realize that some opportunities only knock once.  We are so grateful to have the opportunity to travel at all. Our Golden Years are about grabbing life by the horns!

T is for Travel To Do Lists (Pre-travel planning)

I have been actively packing for nearly two months! The week before departure,  I can announce that I am about 98% prepared to walk out the door.

Planning for an extensive trip like the one we are about to take, requires months of preparation.  There are many moving parts, especially when doing land and sea travel.  We will be moving from high temperatures to cool.  We will be snorkeling, trekking volcanoes, boating, visiting temples and more.  Each activity requires careful clothing decisions. There are visas to order, reservations to be made and transportation to be arranged.   How do I keep track of it all?

The super list stays in a travel folder on my computer and gets modified after each trip.  Sometimes we add more details, sometimes we subtract tasks.  I change the font color to green when a task is complete, red for those things which still need to be finished. This helps me keep a running list for everything which still needs to get done.

As we get closer to the journey, I also keep a daily to do list, in the notes section of my phone, making it easy to tick each project off one by one, as I get things done.  I also keep a “to buy” list on the phone, so that I can make purchases if needed, as we are running other errands.

Here is our general “To Do” List:

TRAVEL TO DO LIST

S is for Stories (Pre-travel planning)

 

We are preparing to depart for a 35 day tour of Asia.  With 10 days of land travel and 25 days on a cruise, the planning has been intense.   Originally this trip had been planned for two weeks after our youngest sons wedding day.  By January, I knew how stressed I was going to be by the August wedding, so we postponed the trip by  months.  This worked to our advantage with a better itinerary and better weather in the areas we would be traveling to.

We are just  days away from leaving.  We have changed our flight a couple of times, first to upgrade to business class when we realized  how difficult sitting for 27 hours was going to be, thank goodness for travel miles!  We changed the tickets again a few days ago, to allow more time for our connections, because we can see that a weather system may be moving in and we only have a two hour connection. This had the effect of cancelling all of our connecting flights, ten days before we set off!  Headache number 1,000 in the planning process of an extended journey! There have been hours spent on the phone with agents, as we finalize the details of our flights, accommodations, excursions etc but we are now sorted out, with seats assigned, a plan in place and suitcases packed.

I am a planner, which means that I am still trying to think about steps B,C and D if something goes wrong.  With just a little more than a week before we leave, I still feel like there are things to do.  I am printing out travel packets, downloading useful apps and trying to think through every little challenge we might face, its just my nature.

As I went to bed last I thought about some advice I was offered by a fellow passenger, while on tour in 2023.  Our bus to the airport, sat in a hot parking lot in Dubai.  We sat there for an hour after we had disembarked, with no air conditioning.  We were waiting for 2 people to join us but they seemed to be stuck in customs.  This had the effect of causing the bus full of people to worry about getting to the airport in time for their flights.  The heat made everyone grouchy and uncomfortable, except for one elderly lady.  I asked her how she stayed so calm.  She stated she has been a traveler for years and learned to take each segment of a journey in bite size pieces.  If something is falling apart, she said, she simply looks at that segment and determines what she can do about it.  In this case, several people had finally gotten off the bus and hailed a taxi to ensure they made their flights, problem solved.

Yes I was hot and uncomfortable on the bus, but I had no important place to be since we were renting a car at the airport and that could wait for a moment.  I finally realized I had options.  I grabbed a bottle of water and stepped outside of the bus where it was cooler.  I passed much of my time standing under a palm tree,  watching with admiration as people with far more brave than myself, were parachuting from planes circling overhead, likely a high adrenaline tour being offered.   They were landing in an open space across from the port.  Relaxing was the solution to my first piece of the puzzle.  I simply slowed down and trusted that everything would fall into place and it did.  In the end, the bus left without the 2 passengers, apparently they had gotten on a different bus a couple of hours earlier! It made for an interesting story and we went about our plans to tour one of the most fascinating places we have ever been.

So today I am packing and planning.  It is likely we may encounter challenges as we embark on this big journey but I am armed with a new attitude as I once again hear the advice of this fellow traveler…”just take everything in bite size pieces” which reminds me,  I think I will pack my snacks today.

“F” is For Fern Grotto-Our Hawaiian Adventure

Today marks the 8th day of our 55 days of world exploration. Since leaving home on January 17, 2023, we have already played in Los Angeles and on the island of Oahu, Hawaii. Alan and I would begin the day early again, so we started the morning with a breakfast on our balcony. The sunrise was beautiful as we arrived in our second port of Hawaii, the island of Kauai. We were Malahini, or newcomers to these lands and we were once again refreshed and ready to explore.

Kauai is a small island at just 33 miles wide by 55 miles long. There is only a single road which only accesses about 1/3 of the small island. After much studying I had learned that the best ways to view this island was by boat or plane, so I had booked tours for us to do both. Our first stop would be the Fern Grotto.

A grotto is a cave which occurs naturally or is man-made. The pictures which I had seen of the Fern Grotto were spectacular and I was very excited to see it. The tour was touted as a visit to a geological wonder of Kauai promising an ampitheater, where ferns grow upside down from the roof of a grotto, which had formed millions of years ago.

There is only one way to get to the Grotto and that is via boat! In fact, The Wailua River is known as “the only navigable river” in all Hawaii, which would make the adventure even more exciting. I felt as if we were discovering hidden places.

There are a couple companies which offer tours on the 22.5 mile long river. We would be traveling with the Smith family for just two of those miles. This family has been navigating the river since 1946. Our boat for the day was called the Whitney K. She was one of several on the river that day.

Besides the few boat companies, the only other way to get to the grotto (which is owned by the Smith family) is by kayak. These could be rented or one could take the half hour journey up the river in their own kayak. Except for the rain which was falling off and on, I think we would have preferred this mode of travel.

Instead we had chosen what I affectionately refer to as a cruise ship “Granny tour”. These are the kinds of trips which are sedate and slow. perfect for the elderly, which we are not yet quite there. This was a float trip down a winding river, while relaxing, it was boring. Don’t get me wrong, the river is pretty enough but the view doesn’t vary much and powering under our own efforts would have at least given us something to do.

The saving grace to our boredom was that we were treated to a pretty spectacular rainbow, which spread across the river as the sun peaked out for a moment after one of the many showers on this day. It was a short lived reprieve from the gloomy day and we soon found ourselves back in our soggy conditions. Thankfully we could remain under cover on our boat while being regaled with the history of the river, as we made our way to the Fern Grotto.

We learned that the water which feeds the river comes from Mt. Wai‘ale‘ale, one of the wettest spots on the planet receiving about 465″ of rain a year! Kauai is the forth oldest of the Hawaiian islands. I was interested to learn that lands along the river were the sacred capital of ancient Kauai and the birthplace of the island’s ali‘i, or royalty.

After about half an hour we reached the dock to disembark for the short walk to the grotto. Normally there would be a performance of The Wedding Song and a hula dancer at the Fern Grotto where they would perform The Wedding Song at the amphitheater, but the rains were preventing it on this day, so the musicians performed on the boat, as we waited out yet another shower.

I had seen spectacular images of the Fern Grotto, so it was disappointing once we finally arrived. There was a lot of greenery but I was very disappointed to realize much of the old grotto had collapsed leaving only a fraction of the original glory. A little creative photography and I was able to capture a piece of the former glory.

In fact, the decline of the Fern Grotto’s began when it was hit by Hurricane Iwa in 1982. It was then nearly destroyed as Kauai was hit by Hurricane Iniki in 1992. Most of the ferns hanging from the grotto were torn from the rocks, With nothing to hold the ground together, the roof of the spectacular amphitheater began collapsing. In 2006 a woman sued the Smith family after being injured by falling rocks. The grotto is no longer accessible by foot and may only be viewed from a distant wooden platform. Although much of the plant life has rebounded, the grotto has had a difficult time recovering as new plant life has sprung up with increased light which now floods the gully.

All was not lost on this tour. After viewing the gully we were able to return to the boat via a flower lined walking path. My camera clicked from one flower to the other, as I attempted to capture the beauty of the native Hawaiian plants which surrounded us. Walking among the colorful exotic tropical plants sproting from the floor of this rain forest I realize I am in my most perfect element of serene peace. It was in this way that I would come to continue recommending this tour for others to enjoy. Perhaps the float trip had been more fabulous than even I had imagined it could be. Perhaps “Granny trips” are exactly what my soul needs as I learn to relax into this sixth decade of my life.

“E” is for Eternal Flame-Our Hawaiian Adventures

While on our Pacific Island Tour, our first stop after departing Los Angeles was the island of Oahu in Hawaii.  The cruise ship docked at Pier 2.  We would be in port until 11pm.  Our first tour wasn’t scheduled until noon, where we had a 10 1/2 hour exploration at the Polynesian Cultural Center planned to fill our afternoon and evening hours.   Never ones to waste time, this meant we still had a couple of hours available to explore the capital city of Waikiki, before the tour began.

A scout around the internet had given me a historical/architectural walking tour, which I figured we could complete in a couple of hours. After being at sea for four days, we were more than ready to explore.  Waving over our shoulders to the ships camera, with the hope of our family seeing us, Alan and I were off the ship by 9am.  With the time changes, we had already been up for several hours as we had watched the ship pull in.

Hand in hand we began walking, our goal was to see any of the 8  historical landmarks in Hawaii.  Many of these are Heritage Sites. These locations provide cultural explanations and the history behind them.  Today we had a goal of seeing the Kawaiahao church, the Capitol Building, the beautiful Iolani Palace, the Parliament building and the King Kamehameha Statue and finally the Eternal Flame monument. This is how the Eternal Flame Memorial became our letter “E”.  It was a 30 minute walk and we had a lot to see before getting there, so we stepped up our pace.  The flame is located directly across from the Capitol Building at 420 So. Beretania St.

The original Eternal flame has burned since 1944, in memory of the attack on Pearl Harbor, but this sculpture was re-dedicated in 1972 to all the men and women of Hawaii who have bravely served.  A palm lined path gently guides the visitor past the homeless population which often hangs out in the area.  It makes sense that they find the area inviting as this area overlooks the beautiful land which is Hawaii.  With the capitol of Waikiki behind us, the Eternal Flame lends a quiet, contemplative air in contrast to the hustle and bustle of the busy city.

The flame is protected from the elements by an interesting metal sculpture which shields it from the wind, ensuring that it burns non-stop.  Perhaps this is the same embrace we should offer to all our vets.

Many of the homeless here are former vets.   As they huddle beneath the statue, I can’t help but be honored to be in the presence of those who have protected us.  After all, isn’t awareness the real reason that this flame burns endlessly?